Dear Blossom,
I am writing to you because I have all these thoughts in my head and though maybe you could help? I have been single now for 8 months and recently attended a birthday party where my ex was. We are still such good friends and at this party his friend introduced me to his girl friend as this is "E" she was dating "N" they were the most perfect couple.... What am I suppose to say to that, perfect couple what is a perfect couple and was what we had perfect. - This played through out my mind the rest of the evening and even so much so made me realise how much I am not over my ex as another girl begun to hit on him.
He hasn't had any partners since the break up and I have. He knows about them and has been cruisy as ever towards me and other people. I don't know if this is a good or bad thing has he moved on?
We broke up for various reason money, fighting, no sprak anymore it was to easy. No sex life really and now I understand physcial attraction is everything - but is it something we could work on if we were to get back together. He has not much drive to achieve anything in his career and general goals so this was exhausting as I have a whole lot of get up and go.. But since that comment "you were the perfect couple" i can't seem to steer away from it.
Thanks Blossom... Katie
Katie, WOW big decision and I have been in this situation 1000 times. Only you can make the decision of whether to go back or not but do consider if you do go back is it going to change or are you going to have the same problems you were having before. Is it a comfort situation and you just mis shaving someone there, and does he also have the same feelings and is going to make it work...? Good Luck and write in again soon and let me know how you are going... Blossom x
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